Learning About Relationships Can Drive You Crazy

I started trying to learn about relationships a little bit before my divorce twelve years ago. I suppose, as an INTJ personality type, that I am drawn to difficult problems. Understanding how relationships work, and how they fail, certainly fits into that category. I have learned a lot in the past twelve years, and I … More Learning About Relationships Can Drive You Crazy

The Magic of a Relationship Between Two Free Thinking Introverts

As an INTJ I love thinking about the world as it exists and why it is the way it is. There is really nothing that is beyond examination. A few weeks ago I received a comment that contained a question that started my mulling juices flowing. That question was in regards to the ideal relationship … More The Magic of a Relationship Between Two Free Thinking Introverts

Being Selfish Doesn’t Make a Commitment Phobic a Narcissist

I received a comment a few weeks ago that really made me think. The comment related to my post on cycling behavior and the suggestion was that narcissism and commitment phobia had to be on the same spectrum because of how cold a phobic can become during the separation part of the cycle. Although I … More Being Selfish Doesn’t Make a Commitment Phobic a Narcissist

Does my INTJ Personality Contribute to my Commitment Phobia? 

The short answer is of course it does, at least by the commonly accepted definition of a commitment phobic. For those who don’t know what I am talking about the INTJ refers to my personality type according to the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator. The first time I took a personality test and read what this profile … More Does my INTJ Personality Contribute to my Commitment Phobia? 

If You Want a Secure Relationship try a Day to Day LAT Relationship

I suppose the reason I am so intrigued by relationships is I have come to see them as a giant puzzle that can’t be solved. So when I come across a piece that just doesn’t even fit in the puzzle I become even more intrigued and I have to examine it.  One such piece is … More If You Want a Secure Relationship try a Day to Day LAT Relationship