Children are not baggage after a divorce, and for that matter a man trying to hold on to part of his family should not be considered baggage either. The term “baggage” should be reserved for the bad things that happen in your life that affect you in some way later in life. For example, if … More Are Children Baggage?
There seems to be very little information available about how to handle issues related to divorce and having adult children, and how difficult and almost impossible choices can result. The main difference, of course, is that adult children are free to do what they want after a divorce. If, as in my case, there was … More Adult Children and Divorce
One of the many things I have found puzzling in the post-divorce world is the notion that the new relationship person in your life must be included in family activities. Why is that? I have often thought that there must be a post-divorce handbook out there somewhere that everybody in the world but me knows … More Why Do Women Want to be Included?
It is a day before my 56th birthday and I decided to start this blog. My purpose is to have an open dialogue about dating after divorce and what it means to the family, but more importantly, I want to take on the conventional wisdom that post divorce relationships are the highest priority. I believe … More Family First