The male Narcissist is a natural predator. He has a built in desire to win so he can maintain his tenuous grasp on superiority. More often than not he is going to go after the easiest prey of all: the unhappily married woman. Let’s face it. At its best marriage is not easy. Marriage … More The Narcissist is a Predator and Married Women are the Prey
I like to separate out those things which are natural human behaviors from those that exist primarily due to cultural influences. Marriage is an interesting one to grapple with. Let’s start with the basics. I think it is natural that two people meet and develop this thing we call “falling in love.” What that is … More How Many Relationships has Marriage Ruined?
One of the reasons I enjoy writing a blog is so often I can just say what I think without doing any rigorous research. Things used to be more that way. Writers like Emerson and Thoreau were just giving us their ideas and even the early psychological speculation from Freud and Jung was just that: … More The Narcissist, The Sociopath and the Nature of Evil
For no particular reason I started thinking about the problem with language the other day and how difficult it is to convey meaning. I think when I first met my Narcissistic ex girlfriend we probably used the same language about what we wanted. We would have both said that we wanted a “close” relationship with … More Words are the problem