Why Commitment Phobics Exhibit Cycling Behavior

Cycling behavior is unfortunately something I have a lot of first hand experience with and it is not pleasant. The result is instability in a relationship and it has caused my girlfriends to feel like they were on an emotional roller coaster.  The root cause of my behavior is the combination of being a commitment … More Why Commitment Phobics Exhibit Cycling Behavior

Are Codependents Actually Narcissists with Filters?

I like to think in terms of continuums when I start labeling people. When it comes to narcissism I have always thought of the person that is extremely narcissistic as being on one end of a selfishness continuum and the codependent, because so many codependents are good caregivers, being on the other end.  The middle … More Are Codependents Actually Narcissists with Filters?

The Narcissist is a Predator and Married Women are the Prey

The male Narcissist is a natural predator.  He has a built in desire to win so he can maintain his tenuous grasp on superiority.  More often than not he is going to go after the easiest prey of all: the unhappily married woman.    Let’s face it. At its best marriage is not easy. Marriage … More The Narcissist is a Predator and Married Women are the Prey